Wednesday, January 25, 2006

Daddy's Little Girl


So the case of the missing Col ( Not me god dang it!) gets curiouser and curiouser as they say in Wonderland.

Paul Tate was cremated.

Paul Tate DID want to be buried at Holy Cross.

Debra apparently claims she wanted to give him a proper military funeral, which she didn't.

Allegedly to some she claims she put the ashes in a park bench so she could sit with him every day- you know because of of her love for him and all.

The root cause of the problem is that when Paul Tate did his will leaving most everything to the grandkids, he neglected to do a health care power of attorney. That made everything automatically the responsibility of the direct next of kin- Debra. if she ever wanted vengeance, it was there to be had.

Col Tate's ashes sat at Whidbey Island Mortuary for five weeks because Debra refused to pay for the cremation services. Eventually money was withdrawn from the estate to pay for it and reclaim the ashes, according to sources.

There WAS a military funeral screduled for the ashes on June 17th 2005. Everyone, including Paul's girlfriend (you go boy!) who was 72 flew out for it. Then, according to people who were there, Debra cancelled it. Never signed some release form or something. The friends and relatives had a memorial anyway, a small affair. None of them know where the ashes actually are, except maybe for that park bench.

All of this comes from reports the Col has received.

So wow. Wow. I start out feeling bad for Debra and end up feeling bad for the grandkids who have to deal with an out there aunt.

This is only the tip of the iceberg. There is more to come. BUT, The Col asks one of these people, like Paige, who roam the internet praising Debra to come here and EXPLAIN this. The guy is dead and wanted to be buried with his family and is not. Why Debra, why?

28 comments:

60skid said...
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ColScott said...

Debra Tate does not have to explain anything to anyone.

This Blog is just my opinions.

I believe Tate's Family is upset at his missing remains.

If Debra chooses to ignore my questions, that is her right.

We have much more to discuss here about her it turns out anyway.

nellieoleson said...

tell us col

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Heaven said...

Ok, over on the Sharon Tate Discussion board, it has been said that the family plot at Holy Cross is full, there is no more room. So maybe that explains why he wasn't buried there...

ColScott said...

Heaven
I am told that is incorrect and he expected to be buried there

Do the geniuses tell you where he IS buried?

60skid said...
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Heaven said...

They said he was cremated and that Debra has his ashes...

ColScott said...

Is she doing a Cartman thing and using the ashes in milk?

Heaven said...

I'm curious, where'd you find that picture of Debra?

ColScott said...

I made it myself......

From The History Channel special

Heaven said...

Ahh ok, gotcha.. It looks like a shot from a home web cam...

Problem Child said...

Miss Paige has closed this topic over on the sharontate.net board. She says she knows it's being discussed elsewhere on the internet and she won't let it continue on a site dedicated to Sharon.

Thank you Col for keeping the lines of communication open.

By shutting down the topic over there, they have raised the question -- "What is Debra trying to hide?" Why lie about there being no room at the cemetery? That is something easily checked out.

Also, how can there not be room for ashes to be buried? It's not like you're going to put them in a full size coffin.

Debra's web of lies and deceit is starting to unravel.

Go, Go Col!!

GLH said...

What's next? Is she going to divide his ashes and divy them out to the family? Or will she be selling little ziplock bags on Ebay? I don't understand why she would keep them away from the family. I'm beginning to think that she's worse than I thought. Maybe it's a control issue. Maybe this is the FIRST time she's able to control her father and remaining relatives.

60skid said...
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Problem Child said...

At the moment it's a complain about Debra blog.

All things Tate-Labianca related. Her last name is Tate and she's related.

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Peyton said...

Thanks for informing us on this issue, Col. :)

Bren said...

I'm just wondering if Debra is keeping his ashes till she dies. Then they both will be buried in the last plot at Holy Cross together. Urns take up a lot less room then a casket.

I also wonder if it is a money issue. If hard times have hit, then I really feel for her.

She should let someone know the truth though. Hiding it makes her look guilty of wrong doing in others eyes. Why not be honest and upfront if you are not hiding anything.
Bren :)

ColScott said...

If Col & Mrs Tate had so much trouble with Debra how did she get Sharon Things ?


but did she? I am getting the probate public records to find out

Heaven said...

I for one am curious about all this. Not because I hate Debra, but just because it's interesting.

If there's some mystery about how Debra acquired all of Sharon's belongings, I wanna know. I'm very curious that way...

=)

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4Sharon said...

I am too Heaven. I think Patti should have gotten things. She seemed to be such a sweet/caring person.

cortex_jnr said...

patti and me should ball
would love to have taken her on family bus

costlules said...

Allegedly to some she claims she put the ashes in a park bench so she might sit with him every single day- you realize due to of her love for him and all.

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